How do you reconcile with friends after a mistake?

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By Ancillotti

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They say that friends are the family we choose. For if the blood ties are definitive, the emotional ties are built and often are the people who chose to be friends and share our life we go through defining moments and memorable.
But what to do when we fail them? When friendship is jeopardized and there is sure is that we were the culprits? The above photo was chosen to represent the feelings of this moment: the loneliness,dejection and sorrow of those who do not know what to do to get back to that dear friend.

The path to be chosen

When observing the perceived error and guilt, many paths can be chosen.
There are those who ignore the fault committed and try to follow the life, even after withdrawal of his friends. There are also those who try to justify blaming others for your mistakes. But what should be the right course to be chosen?

The right path

Well, I believe the right path to follow is one in which the fault is recognized truth. You have to repeat to yourself that friendship is at risk through their own fault and nobody else. When I say this I am not asking anyone to beat yourself up or feel the worst of beings on the planet, we all make mistakes and the big difference is whether or not to recognize our mistakes.
Be humble and ask forgiveness. Tell the truth, be objective and direct what you say.
Do not want that, if the damage has been great, it will suffice for your friend to extend your arms and you receive so quickly.
Some things take time, but insist. If friendship is important to you,apologize with my heart open to hear what your friend has to say.Explain yourself one, two, three, many times as necessary, always being humble.
Believe that if this is indeed true friendship, sincerity and desire to redeem himself, attached to the time needed to heal the wound,will bring his friend back.
Soon you will no longer walk alone. Their road will no longer be dark, but joyful and full of surprises.


Then, after the time of separation and suffering, give value to your friends! Do not let them go home without you to know how important they are in your life and how it is good to have them around!

Invite your friends to watch his side the video below I found on the Internet about friendship.
Good luck and hope you choose the right way!

Comments

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kafsoa 13 months ago

Good hub. Voted up

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barryrutherford Level 5 Commenter 13 months ago

Voted up also! well done

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ZOOSMC 13 months ago

nice hub!

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aw1219 Level 1 Commenter 13 months ago

Thank you for posting this hub!

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non sequitur 13 months ago

Awesome hub. Two thumbs up.

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JT Walters 5 months ago

This was truly moving. For you to understand this means you must be a wonderful person.

JT

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Ancillotti Hub Author 5 months ago

Jt Walters is so good to have you here in my hub. Thank you for your kind comment. A big hug my friend and cheers.

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JT Walters 5 months ago

Ancillotti,

I am such a fan of yours!! And today I need a bug hug so I will take it.

Cheers as well to you!!

JT

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